PLEASE SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN
A good education provides students with everything they need to excel in
their careers and life in general. Someone with a decent education is more
enlightened and fulfilled with a more improved character and outlook on life.
Educated people have more opportunities for advancement, with better education
in K-12 schools offering more opportunities for higher education. The knowledge
is only the beginning of the benefits to getting a good education, whether it
is preliminary, secondary or college-level schooling.
On a societal level, increasing the amount of available education leads to improved average income and a higher quality of life, according to the Global Partnership for Education.
Research shows that children start learning as infants, long
before they ever begin school. The studies say parents are children’s
first and most influential teachers—whether we want to be or not!
Our children know us and trust us. They learn from
us. They look to us as role models. Children’s Christian values, their
habits, their likes and dislikes are most influenced by their
parents. The same is true for children’s interests, their religious
faith, their attitudes about learning and other people, even the words
they learn. Parents have the most influence on all these things.
It’s sobering, but true, that the qualities that will
determine how successful children will be in school and in life are
influenced most by their parents. Our challenge is to find ways to spend
time, lots of undivided attention time, with our children. Then we need
to be the best influence we can be on our children during the time we
spend with them.
Making the time usually involves sacrifice and tough
choices. But it’s worth it. The time we spend with children now will pay
big dividends for the rest of their lives, here and in eternity—and
ours. It’s hard to say that about anything else we might choose to do
with our time.
It sounds odd, but it’s true—finding time takes
time. It’s worth it to spend an hour or so reviewing and improving your
schedule. Kids can benefit from doing this. The following steps will
help:
© Share time in God’s Word. Talk
about their Savior. Review memory work. Hold regular family
devotions. If your children see you are really serious about their faith
life, it will be important to them also.
© List your priorities. Chances are your family is number one. Other priorities may include work, school, friends, exercise, and relaxation.
© Study your schedule. Does
it reflect your priorities? If family comes first, for example, you
should be spending more time at home than anywhere else.
© Set specific goals. Decide
how you will find time for the things that matter most. For example, “I
will eat dinner with my family four nights a week.”
© Change your schedule. Cut
back on the activities that interfere with your goals. This can be
difficult, especially if it requires making sacrifices and working
less. It helps to remember that kids would rather (even though they
might not admit it) have more time with parents than more material
things.
courtesy: http://www.eastsidelutheran.org
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